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Lovelife problem, need help!..

 
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dropdeadgorgeouz
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 3:48 pm    Post subject: Lovelife problem, need help!.. Reply with quote

meron po akong ex na bumabalik sa'kin ngayon...

naghiwalay po kami dahil biglang nagpakita sa kanya yung ex nya before sakin.. yung girl eh 6 months pregnant.. sya yung tinuturong ama... 8 months na kami that time.. bale simple niloko nya ko nung 2nd month namin.. tas nadevelop s'ya sakin magte-3months kami...

after 1 month ng paglitaw nung girl eh nagpakasal sila.. dahil tinakot siya nung ama ng girl na papatay pag di na pinakasalan... so yun nagpakasal nga sila...

pero di natapos yung relationship namin dun.. alam kong mali, madami ng nag.aadvise sa'kin pero sinasabi ko lang sa kanila.. madaling sabihin mahirap gawin.. kasi di naman sila yung nakakaramdam...

pero tinapos ko na nga dahil pinuntahan ako ng nanay nung girl..... saka inaaway ako ng girl sa text... di ako nagcomunicate sa kanya for almost two months... pero nagpupumilit siya na kahit maging friends lang daw kami.. pumayag ako.. wala namang masama dun...

nag.usap kami nito llang at sinabi nya sa'kin na mahal nya pa din ako.. di nya magawang mahalin yung girl... nagpakasal siya dahil sa baby.. ang planu nya eh lalabas siya ng bansa at magfa file ng anulment...

alam kong mali ito.. di ko naman alam kung anong gagawin ko...
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 10:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

just follow your heart.. iba kasi yung sinasabi nilang rule ng puso at rule ng mundo... tingin ko kasi, kung mahal mo yung tao, dapat mahat mo talaga sya.. medyo idealistic and impractical sa paningin ng iba.. but in the end its your own vision of what is right and what will makes you happy... kasi ikaw pa rin ang masusunod.. ikaw kasi yan...at hindi ang iba...


just give yourself time to think pa rin... Although mahirap sa una...


timbangin mo yung mas higit na mas mabigat.. then make a choice..

life is a risk... just learn to be risky... have courage..

life is a game.. play it.. life is life.. live it..


yun lang. hope na napagaan ko pakiramdam mo..


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 8:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks po talaga....

yung nga po eh dapat po mag adjust sa mga tao sa palagid mo..

hmmm.. i think spend time with my family muna ako saka meet new friends... kung kami, kami talaga... Smile
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 5:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i have a problem...

hindi ko alam kung anong gagawin ko...
may bf ako, mahal ko siya...
pero feeling ko may nagugustuhan ata siyang iba...
hindi ako sure sa kutob pero super nasasaktan na ako..
may mga nababasa kasi akong messages na nakakapanghinala...
super naguguluhan na ako...
pero hindi ko rin naman magawang i-confront yung bf ko...
hindi ko din kasi alam kung anong sasabihin ko sa kanya...
naguguluhan na ako...
di ko na talaga alam gagawin ko...
i need help..

kung tutuusin marami naman iba dyan na may gusto sa akin at gusto akong ligawan...
kaso nga lang ayoko kasi nga mahal ko bf ko...
kung pwede lang talaga siya na talaga....
kasi pagod na din akong magpabagobago ng bf...
nakakasawa na kasing masaktan at makasakit...

please! can somebody help me....
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 7:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

^buti pa siguro tanungin mo na siya
but before that dapat handa ka na sa anumang sasabihin niya.
whether its positive or negative.
be strong. wag mo hayaan masira kayo.
do something! magpaganda ka. or gumawa ka ng effort para sa inyo.
yayain mo ng date. Very Happy
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 8:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

@kix

thanks sa advice girl...
pero mukang di ko yata kaya na kausapin siya eh..
hindi kasi ako yung type na girl na prangka...
kahit nasasaktan na ako di ko pinapakita...
i just hide my emotions and smile na parang laging ok lang ang lahat..
in short martir ako....

grabe...
ang hirap talagang mainlove...
sana naman nakaramdam siya na marunong din naman akong magselos...
babae rin ako...
hay!!!!


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 1:47 am    Post subject: . Reply with quote

@ ai- yan

May suggestions and payo ako sayo, kaso na post kona dun sa love problems na thread. Basahin monalang po dun.
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 4:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

@dropdeadgorgeouz
sa totoo lang, dapat wala ka ng ginagawa...
hayaan mo na yung guy yung gumawa ng bagay para sa sarili nya..
hintayin mo kung babalik pa ba sya..
at kung bumalik sya, timbangin mo ang sitwasyon kung matatanggap mo pa ba sya ulit o hindi na..
let time decide for you..
wag mo pilitin ang sarili mo..
kaya mo yan.. Very Happy
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 4:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

@ai - yan

alam mo miss, wala ka po tlga mapapala kung itatago mo ng itatago yung nararamdaman mo..
kelangang malaman ng bf mo kung anu ang totoong nararamdaman mo..
anu essence ng relationship nyo as magbf/gf kung nagtataguan lang din kayo ng feelings?
just be ready kahit anu ang maging reaction nya..
besides, MAGTATANONG ka lang..
kelan ba naging kasalanan ang pagtatanong, di ba? Very Happy

go girl! aja! Smile
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 21, 2010 9:29 pm    Post subject: . Reply with quote

Yap tama ka Januz dapat wag itago ang asa loob, the truth will set you free. Kaya ako vonoice out kuna yung asa loob ko. Oo masakit, naiyak din naman ako, pero I need to do it kasi kesa mag lokohan edi susundin ko kung anu nasa loob ko, kung anu talaga nararamdaman ko.
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 05, 2010 1:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

waaaaaaaaaaahhh!

ang gulo ko talaga....
anong gagawin ko?
i want to give it a try....
pero nagdadawalang isip ako kasi what if kung nakipagbalikan ako sa ex ko tapos bigla naman naging ok na ulit kami nung friend ko na gusto ko at may gusto din sa akin?
tama bang paasahin yung ex ko?
what if sa sobranbg tagal ng paghihintay nya mapagod sya?
and what if kung kailan dumating yung point na napagod siya saka ko marealize na siya pala ang gusto ko?

hay naku!!!
so complicated!!!!





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PostPosted: Mon Apr 05, 2010 11:15 am    Post subject: . Reply with quote

@ Carlyan

Mahirap talaga pero para sakin antayin monalang kung kailan mo maramdaman yung spark, kung kanino sakanila mo ito mararamdaman. Kasi pag minadali mo baka wala lang magandang mangyari. Basta antay kalang, kung mainip man siya at umayaw na e it means hindi talaga siya for you, kasi kung para sayo talaga siya, andiyan padin sila until the time na maka pag decide kana talaga. Wag kang mag mamadali yan lang ang mapapayo ko.
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 05, 2010 6:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

haynakuuuu.....!!!!
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 06, 2010 7:36 pm    Post subject: . Reply with quote

@ Blackhat

Bakit ka napa hay?
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 06, 2010 8:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

@dropdeadgorgeouz
mam payo lang po..kung mahal ka niya talaga di niya naman gagawin yun..if i were you po..magsacrifice ka na lang para dun sa bata..yung bata na lang po intindihin mo..paano na yung kinabukasan ng bata?wag mo naman ipagkait sa kanya magkaroon ng ama..sorry pero nasasabi ko to dahil galing ako sa isang broken family,at sobrang hirap po..may mas maganda ka pa sigurong kinabukasan hindi lang sa lalaking yan..malay mo may nilaan ang Diyos na iba para sayo.Isipin niyo na lang po yung bata na dinadala nung girl.kawawa naman kasi.opinion ko lang po yan,ikaw pa rin masusunod.
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2010 7:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

@ zack1605

oo nga iniisip ko nga rin yun ehh.. saka kaya sya ngpakasal kasi nga broken fam din sya galing kaya ayaw nya maulit yung nangyari sa kanya..

anyways... inaalis ko na sya sa utak ko mali talaga.. kung kami talaga eh di kami.. kung hindi e di hindi.. heheh
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